81! Happy Birthday! I'll expect there is a lot of chocolate involved in some fashion, with loads of well wishers, angels flying about, a funny quip from Dad. I would guess gifts are non existent, nor necessary or usable. However likely a far deeper and meaningful celebration? Maybe a short one on one with GOD? Your once a year meeting who just gives you one little drop of his love that lasts all year, and know it will also last forever. Pretty special. From here on earth still we miss you, love you and think of you. You see your girls doing so amazingly well and are such outstanding young ladies with most special hearts and souls. Know you're always loved and missed. Happy Birthday Sis!